Is it normal to feel weird and uncomfortable performing a sexy striptease for the first time? The short answer is yes, very much so. You’d be in quite a tiny minority of people if you didn’t feel peculiar the first time you put on a show for the girl in your life.
The same also applies to cam girls via sex video chat services. If you’re intent on showing the girl on the other end of the line a good time (which you should be), performing a striptease is a good way to go. The fact that you’re hooking up with someone long-distance on an anonymous basis means much of the fear of what might go wrong is removed from the equation.
First things first – getting it right with a striptease is all about keeping things as fun as possible. It’s supposed to be enjoyable, as opposed to stuffy and formal. You’re not a professional, and you’re not going to make things happen by taking yourself too seriously. This is the number-one rule for successful stripteases – irrespective of whether they take place remotely or in person.
Other than this, there are just five things you need to do to get your striptease game in order. And here they are:
1. Choosing an Appropriate Soundtrack
Why do you need some music to put on a striptease? It’s easy – try performing one in complete silence, and you’ll realize just how quickly things get weird. You need an appropriate soundtrack for your striptease, which can be pretty much anything you want it to be. Though it has to be said that ideally, it should be music the girl you’re entertaining likes. If in doubt, you can always ask your cam girl what music she’s into and what her choice of romantic tunes would be.
2. Think About What You Will Wear
Contrary to popular belief, you don’t have to wear a costume to put on a striptease.
Dressing up like a police officer or construction worker could make you feel borderline ridiculous. Of course, you could always ask your ‘date’ in advance if they have any fantasies involving men in uniform and go ahead and act them out for their pleasure. But when it comes to most everyday women (including cam girls), simply dressing up smartly is enough.
When choosing clothing for a striptease, think carefully about ease of movement and how seamlessly you’ll be able to remove your clothes when the time comes.
3. Consider Where You Will Give Your Performance
The right environment is essential for putting on a striptease with the desired effect. This is particularly important with a remote striptease, as you must get the setting and the equipment set up just right. You’ll need to think carefully about camera angles, lighting, shadows, and the amount of space around you to strut your stuff.
This usually involves taking as many breakables out of the immediate vicinity as possible, setting up some mood lighting, maybe adding some candles, and so on.
4. Plan and Practice Your Striptease
One of the best things about hooking up with cam girls regularly is how it allows you to practice your game to your heart’s content. There’s no better way to practice your striptease routine than with an online date. This is also the perfect place to head for tips and insights when planning your striptease. The long and short of it is that making things up as you go along as a first-timer is not a good idea. You don’t need to plan everything to the letter (improvisation is essential), but you must have a basic plan/idea in mind.
5. Be Confident Yet Humble
Last up, this harks back to the whole thing of not taking yourself too seriously and keeping things as lighthearted as possible. It takes a certain amount of confidence to put on a decent striptease. If it’s clear you’re completely lacking confidence and feeling out of your comfort zone, she will not be able to enjoy the experience. But at the same time, you also need to be able to see the funny side of things and to laugh at yourself when things go wrong. During those first few attempts, they almost certainly will, much to the amusement of all involved.
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